12: Using Communication to Manage Challenging Behaviors

This program will help you to:

  • Understand the changes in communication associated with Alzheimer’s disease
  • Understand why good communication skills are critical
  • Use good communication skills to help manage challenging behaviors
  • Learn about care recipient abuse and how to prevent it
  • There are no easy answer when its comes to the care of another
  • Our hope is to offer you useful information and guidelines for caring for someone with dementia
  • These guidelines will need to be adjusted to suit your own individual needs
  • Language understanding decreases
  • Difficulty expressing thoughts, emotions and needs
  • Not making sense or repeating things
  • Lose reading and writing skills
  • Lose recent memories before distant ones
  • Shorter attention span
  • Loss of conversational social skills

What could Mary have done to prevent this difficult behavior?

  • A. Mary should have faced Robert, gotten his attention and made sure he understood the instructions
  • B. Mary should not have tried to force Robert to take off his robe.
  • C. Mary should have tried to find out why Robert did not want to shower, and address any issues.
  • D. Mary should have shown a relaxed attitude and used a calming tone of voice and body language.
  • E. All of the above.

Choice A: Mary should have faced Robert, gotten his attention, and made sure he understood the instructions, is an excellent choice.

  • Do not assume that the person with dementia remembers things or understands what you are saying

Choice B: Mary should not have tried to force Robert to take off his robe,is also a good choice.

  • You may have to demonstrate or assist the person in what steps you need them to do

Choice C: Mary should have tried to find out why Robert did not want to shower and address any issues,could also be a reason.

  • Remember that the disease is causing the change in personality and loss of abilities

Choice D: Mary should have shown a relaxed attitude and used a calming tone of voice and body language,is also a good answer.

  • Speak slowly and clearly with a pleasant tone of voice and comforting facial expressions and body language

Choice E: All of the above,is the correct answer.

  • Use a calm voice, pleasant facial expressions, body language and touch
  • Gain the person’s attention before speaking
  • Offer reassurance rather than criticism
  • Use empathy and validation
  • Remove triggers for unwanted behavior, or remove the person from the stressful situation
  • Redirect or distract
  • Try to be patient and flexible
  • Consider giving some alone time
  • Provide regular, undivided attention
  • Show that you value the person
  • Use appropriate touch to convey comfort and support
  • Try to preserve dignity and self-esteem
  • Listen to music or sing together
  • Use a conversation focus
  • Use pleasant smells, tastes, and textures
  • Exercise
  • Outings
  • Ridiculing or criticizing
  • Ignoring, neglecting, or providing poor care
  • Isolating or secluding
  • Punishing or retaliating
  • Hurrying or pressuring
  • Threatening or frightening
  • Using restraints

The Minnesota Department of Health has provided information to consumers on understanding the role of restraints in resident safety. Click here for more information on restraints NOTE: clicking on the link will take you to another website

Tips for Avoiding Care Recipent Abuse

  • Use good communication skills
  • Always asume that people with dementia are acting to the best of their abilities
  • Never treat them like children
  • If you feel overworked or frustrated, take a break before abusive behavior occurs
  • Make regular use of relaxation techniques
  • Talk to others about your feelings
  • Learn more about caregiver stress and how to manage it
  • Take care of the your health and needs
  • Good communication can help prevent and resolve challenging behaviors
  • Show respect, patience, and flexibility
  • Approach caregiving as a collaborative team effort
  • Use a non-judgmental, open-minded approach
  • Use empathy and validation
  • Keep a positive attitude and a sense of humor
  • Never force them to do things they do not want to do
  • Remain calm and use pleasant facial expressions and body language
  • Get and keep the person’s attention while speaking and listening
  • Remove environmental triggers and avoid situations that lead to difficult behaviors
  • Remove the person from the stressful situation
  • Give the person time to calm down
  • Redirect or distract with something pleasant
  • Try to find the meaning behind the behavior
  • Establish a caring, trusting relationship
  • Care recipient abuse comes in many forms
  • Criticizing, scolding, pressuring, punishing, threatening, isolating, ignoring, neglecting, restraining, and assaulting
  • Preventing abuse involves taking care of the caregiver and managing stress

Written by:
Catherine M. Harris, PhD, RNCS.
Mindy J. Kim-Miller, MD, PhD

Edited by:
Sasha Asdourian

www.LightBridgeHealthcare.com

Guidelines for Improving Communication

Select the best answers from the list of choices following each question.

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